Parish and School Ministries
Our Mission Statement:
We Make Missionary Disciples
CONSULTATIVE BODIES
Finance Council: The Finance Council is comprised of parishioners with an expertise in finance who review monthly financial statements, approve the budget for the parish and the school, and advise the pastor on financial matters.
Contact: Finance Council Chair, Kevin Loughlin kloughlin60@gmail.com
Pastoral Council: The purpose of the parish pastoral council is to investigate parish matters, to consider them thoroughly, and to propose practical conclusions about them. The council’s task is, first, to study those matters brought to its attention and shed light on them. Its second task is to reflect on them thoroughly, to discern their true nature, and then evaluate and ponder them. Its final task is to draw sound conclusions. The council presents these conclusions to the pastor in the form of recommendations. This threefold task of the council – investigating, considering, and recommending conclusions – is called pastoral planning. Council members are chosen, above all, for their ability to accomplish the main task of the council – the work of investigating, considering and recommending practical conclusions. They are baptized Catholics in good standing with the Church who reflect the parish’s various neighborhoods, social and professional groups, and apostolates. Finally, they are parishioners noted for their faith, good morals and prudence.
Contact: Ed Bohi edbohi21@gmail.com
Trustees: Our trustees are lay members of the parish who serve with the Bishop and pastor in forming the corporate structure of the parish.
Contact: trustees Pat Kiernan wkier2@verizon.net and Kevin Loughlin kloughlin60@gmail.com
School Board: The St. Mary of the Lakes School Board provides assistance and advice to the Pastor and the Principal. The Board assists with financial planning and budget preparation, as well as setting long/short-range goals for our school.
Contact: Lauren Arnot larnot95@gmail.com
FORMATION
Baptismal Preparation: Baptismal preparation classes for first-time parents are held monthly and provide an overview of the Sacrament, the commitment being made, and what is required of a Godparent.
Contact: Elizabeth McDonald eamcdhoya@gmail.com and Thomas McDonald tlmcduck@gmail.com
Becoming Catholic (RCIA): Becoming a Catholic or participating in the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults (RCIA) is a process of spiritual formation by which the Church prepares those 16 years of age or older for the sacraments of Baptism, Confirmation and Eucharist. If you are interested in being baptized, completing your sacraments of initiation as a Catholic, or being received into full communion with the Catholic Church, please consider RCIA. We meet Sunday mornings September through Easter.
Contact: Christine Brandt (609) 654-8208, Ext. 113 or email cbrandt@smlparish.org
Lending Library: Our lending library is in the vestibule of the Jackson Road entrance and has books, DVDs, and CDs which parishioners can borrow. Volunteers maintain the cart after Sunday Mass.
Contact: Stella Denn (609)923-7504 or email stella.denn@verizon.net
Faith Seekers Book Club: Our Literary Guild meets several times a year to discuss both Catholic and contemporary literature. Contact the parish office for info.
Contact: MaryJane Abplanalp (609)350-8363 or email: mja1030@aol.com
Loretta Amari (609)654-6502 or email: lamari44@comcast.net
Littlest Disciples: This is a family ministry focusing on developing our children’s relationship with Jesus. The mission is to reinforce the message of the Gospel to children from birth to fourth grade alongside their families through spiritually guiding, fun, and interactive activities and events.
Contact: Mary Bell - email: mbohitrack@verizon.net
Nicole Grussenmyer - email: nicole.grussenmeyer@gmail.com
Marriage Ministry: Join other couples in promoting the Sacrament of Marriage and supporting those already married through educational, spiritual, and social events in collaboration with our Cohort parish, Holy Eucharist. Contact the parish office for info.
Contact: Deb & Keith Kent (609) 535-5713 or email: debkeith2@comcast.net
PREP (Parish Religious Education Program): PREP assists in the faith formation of parish children not enrolled in our school. They are immersed in the teachings of the Church, its worship, and prayer life and are empowered to live and proclaim the GOOD NEWS as they reach out in service to others.
Contact: Todd Nolan (609) 654-2546, Ext. 315. or email tnolan@smlparish.org
Pre-Cana: Offered in the spring and fall, Pre-Cana is a marriage preparation program for engaged couples led by a group of married parishioners.
Contact: Nicole / Eric Grussenmeyer at nicole.grussenmeyer@gmail.com
Respect Life: Participants in this ministry are committed to fostering prayer for the unborn, advocating programs that assist those who choose life and embracing projects directed at ending abortion, as well as providing information about other pro-life issues.
Contact: Ann Babinchock fb4849@comcast.net
HOSPITALITY
Carnival: Be a part of this exciting annual event by volunteering to sell tickets, work a game, help with parking ... the opportunities are endless! Like the fun you’ll have!
Contact: Maria King at (609)953-9486 or email: mking@eventcrazy.com
Community Sunday: This ministry brings the mandate “Love Your Neighbor” alive in the parish by fostering a warm welcome to our parishioners on Community Sunday and other gatherings at various times through refreshments and fellowship.
Contact: Carole Coyle (609)953-1385 or email: ccoyle77@comcast.net
Sue Ross (732)609-2595 or email: sueross26@gmail.com
Consolation: This ministry assists and plans the funeral liturgy with family members and offers help to those grieving through individual counseling. The ministry conducts bereavement group sessions twice a year. The Ministry of Consolation forms and readings are available on the home page of the parish website.
Contact: Sue Roggio (609)953-1723 or email: chairfxr@aol.com.
Hospitality Committee: The special events committee coordinates receptions for special events, such as a seminar or parish mission, throughout the year.
Contact: Debbi Cancelliere at (609) 654-8208 or Dcancelliere@smlparish.org.
Parish Health Ministry: This ministry supports and promotes spiritual/ physical wellness for the parish community and Medford/Medford Lakes residents by providing health education and screenings, counseling, information, referral, advocacy and visitation to individuals and groups.
Contact: Pat Douglas (609)654-1280 or email: fiat2172@verizon.net
Marylou Beecham (609)654-9072 or email: mlbeecham@gmail.com
LITURGICAL
Adult Choir: The choir sings at either the 9:00 or 10:30 a.m. Mass each Sunday, as well as for special liturgical events. They rehearse every Wednesday night at 7:00 p.m.
Contact: Carolyn Cuperwich (609)654-8208 ext 129 ccuperwich@smlparish.org
Altar Servers: Both boys and girls, fourth grade and above, are invited to serve at Mass assisting priests and deacons. Registrations are held in the fall.
Contact: Father Dan (609)654-8208 ext. 115 or email: father_dan@smlparish.org
Children’s Choir: The children’s choir is composed of both PREP and school children from grades 2-5. Practice is on Wednesday from 5:30 to 6:30. They sing at monthly children's Masses throughout the year and join the adult choir for a Christmas concert.
Contact: Carolyn Cuperwich (609)654-8208 ext 129 ccuperwich@smlparish.org
Readers: Readers proclaim the Word of God at Mass on Sundays, Holy Days of Obligation, and daily Mass. Since we encounter Christ in His Word as well as in the Eucharist, the ministry requires persons with a strong, clear voice who can express clearly the words of Scripture.
Contact: Jim Quigley (609)953-7381 or email: qjquigley@hotmail.com
Sacristans: These are our Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Communion who help set up for Mass.
Contact: Ed Mayer (703)401-7330 or email: lemayeriv@yahoo.com
Ushers: Ushers provide assistance to those entering the church and those in need during liturgical functions. They also take the collection during the Preparation of the Gifts.
Contact: John Fleming (609)975-2112 or email: jfleming@smartpros.com
PRAYER
Children’s Church: We offer a “Children’s Church” in the Emmaus Center during the 10:30 a.m. Mass for children ages 4-5. The children stay approximately 20 minutes before returning to the church to join their parents for the liturgy of the Eucharist. Children's Church is not held on those Sundays when 10:30 a.m. Mass is designated as a "Children's Mass."
Contact: Todd Nolan (609)654-8202 ext. 315 or email: tnolan@smlparish.org
Come To Me - Jeremiah 29:12: Intercessory prayer is about praying for and with others. Our goal and commitment are to “surround our parish in prayer.” We will supply a list of requests once a week to those who offer to join us in prayer. We will share first names only (or no name) to protect the privacy of those we hold in prayer. As a member of Jeremiah 29:12 you can: pray each week at home alone or with family and/or friends; pray in your already established prayer groups; pray in our Adoration Chapel; simply, join our weekly email prayer chain.
Contact: Rebecca Weill (856)810-0266 or email: rweill92@gmail.com
Eucharistic Adoration: Anyone interested in signing up for a Eucharistic Adoration hour can go to a website that helps us manage the Eucharistic Adoration schedule. You can access the website from your smart phone or computer at: sml.weadorehim.com - Just click “Sign Up” to create an account and set your preferences. Use the activation code: AVEMARIA to automatically register.
Contact: Natalie Stone mazzunat007@msn.com or
Diana Kenworthy dkenworthy1@gmail.com.
Glory to God Charismatic Prayer Group: Meets every Tuesday from 7:30 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. for prayer and praise to God, intercessory prayer, scripture and personal witness.
Contact: Marianne Perkins (609)760-9221 or marnperk@gmail.com
That Man Is You (T.M.I.Y.) Men’s Gospel Reflection Group: Meets every Monday morning at 6 a.m. at the Jackson Road Entrance of the church.
Contact: Andre Caldini at aj.caldini@yahoo.com or Gerry Burke at geraldburkemdjd@comcast.net.
Miraculous Medal Novena: This ministry meets after the 9:00 a.m. Mass on Mondays.
Contact: Pat Hess (609)654-7633 or email: bmtmb8248@hotmail.com
Pray for Our Priests: In gratitude for the gift of the priesthood, would you be willing to commit to pray for a priest or bishop in our parish/diocese each week? Our ministry gathers prayer warriors to pray for our priests, especially from our own diocese, in order to intercede for them and their needs in effectively ministering to all of us and bringing even more souls into the faith.
Contact: Eileen Donahue email: eileenmdonahue@gmail.com
Pray for Vocations: Families are asked to take home an icon of Mother of the Eternal High Priest and prayer cards after Sunday Mass and pray together for vocations every day for a week. The icon is then returned to the sacristy the following Sunday for the next family.
Rosary: The rosary is prayed Weekdays following morning Masses except Thursday and only after 9:30 a.m. Mass on Saturday in the Church; Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday at 3:30 p.m. in the Church.
Thursday Prayer and Bible Study Group: Meet each Thursday from 9:45 to 11:30 a.m. (following the 9 a.m. Mass ). For over 15 years our group has met to pray, read and support each other in bringing our children, our families and ourselves, closer to God.
Contact: Rebecca Weill at 609-828-6137 or email rweill92@gmail.com
SCHOOL
St. Mary of the Lakes School is a pre-K through 8th grade school committed to promoting a Christian environment where students are instructed in the foundations of the Catholic Faith and prepared academically
to face future challenges.
Altar Servers and Sacristans: Students prepare the altar and serve at school Masses. Contact: Todd Nolan (609)654-8208 ext. 315 tnolan@smlparish.org
Athletic Association: The Athletic Association provides the best possible athletic instruction and experience through sports to the students of our school and to supplement our existing Physical Education Program. The Athletic Association is made up of volunteer coaches and an Executive Board.
Contact: Mike Venable (954)658-5272 or email: mike_venable@msn.com
Bands: The Beginners Band is for students in grade 4 and the Advanced Band is for students in grades 5 - 8. Students perform at two annual school concerts and other events throughout the year.
Contact: Chase Cataldo ccataldo@nemusicprograms.com
Before/After School Care Program: This program is available 7:00 a.m. to 8:00 a.m. and 3:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m.
Contact: Lisa Mongrandi (609) 654-2546, Ext. 225
School Choir: School Choir members visit Medford Leas and the senior housing living facility behind the school. They are invited to perform at the Medford Dickens Festival in December and participate in the annual 101.5/101.1 Christmas Choir Competition.
Contact: Carolyn Cuperwich (609)654-8208 ext 129 ccuperwich@smlparish.org
Drama Club: The St. Mary of the Lakes Drama Club is open to students in grades 5-8 who love to act, as well as those with an artistic ability, musical talent, or interest in staging and lighting. The club members perform a musical production each spring. The Drama Club’s ultimate goal is to nurture students into confident and independent young adults who appreciate the arts. Please email jmarcinkowski@smlschool.org or smltheaterdept@gmail.com
Giving Tree and Jesse Tree: Students and school families donate gifts for needy school families, the St. Vincent de Paul Society, Catholic Charities, Providence House and homeless families served by the Cathedral Kitchen in Camden.
Mission Club: Children of St. Mary of the Lakes School perform acts of charity and service to local, state, and foreign organizations in need.
Email: missionclub@smlschool.org.
Parent Teacher Association (PTA): The Parent Teacher Association supports the faculty and staff of our parish school and enhances parents’ ability to participate actively and effectively in their child’s education. Email: pta@smlschool.org
TV Crew: Eighth grade students, who prepare scripts, create sets, research and tie current events to our Faith, create School Service Announcements, and anchor a broadcast every morning. They also lead the entire school in a morning prayer each day.
SERVICE
Alcoholics Anonymous: Meeting is held every Sunday at 7:00 p.m. in the parish office conference room. AA is the international mutual aid fellowship founded in 1935 by Bill Wilson and Dr. Bob Smith in Akron, Ohio, whose stated "primary purpose" is to help alcoholics "stay sober and help other alcoholics achieve sobriety."
Bear’s Den: This is a fun-filled social group for adults (18 and older) who have special needs and are living at home. It gathers once a month for social activities, to renew old friendships and develop new ones. It is a chaperoned event, allowing caregivers to relax and have time to themselves.
Cathedral Kitchen: St. Mary of the Lakes Students provide a brown bag lunch, drink, dessert, and they create original place mats for this mission in Camden which feeds the homeless and homeless families living in local shelters, twice a day. Students remain after school to prepare the meals with all food donated by SML School families. Each month a different grade level participates by making the meals and preparing them for delivery to the Cathedral Kitchen in Camden on the first Friday of each month. Patty Nardi pnardi@smlparish.org
Confirmation Community Service: Students in grades 6-8 perform several hours of community service to prepare for the Sacrament of Confirmation.
Contact: Todd Nolan (609) 654-2546, Ext. 315. or email tnolan@smlparish.org
Cub Scouts: Parish-chartered Cub Scout Pack 108 is one of Medford’s most exciting youth organizations. Find information on the Community Facebook page, Medford Cub Scouts Pack 108.
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Environmental Awareness: Our purpose is to use our knowledge, enthusiasm, and love of the environment to motivate, inspire, and educate members of our parish and community to preserve and protect the environment, to conserve natural resources, and to foster a better understanding of the need to care for God’s creation.
Contact: Millie Linett (609)668-1673 or email: mlinett@verizon.net
Family Promise: As a member of this national ministry, St. Mary of the Lakes houses and feeds area homeless families for one week, four times a year in the Emmaus Center. Parishioners provide food, transportation, and companionship to the guests.
Contact: Marie Cox (609)654-0244 or email: marie.cox1@verizon.net
Feed My Sheep Casserole: The casserole program is sponsored by our youth group and is one of the ways we assist the poor and vulnerable. Frozen casseroles can be dropped off at the Parish Office Monday-Friday, 9 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. Casseroles are donated to the Christian Caring Center in Brown’s Mills, New Jersey and the New Jerusalem Center in Philadelphia. Frozen casseroles are dropped off at the parish office from September through June. Casseroles are donated to “Joe’s Place” at Sacred Heart Church in Camden and to the Christian Caring Center in Brown’s Mills.
Contact: yes@smlparish.org.
Fifth Grade Medford Leas Ministry: Fifth grade students of St. Mary of the Lakes school partner with Medford Leas, a retirement community, to coordinate visits with the residents, make crafts, read to them, play games, and take them on walks several times a year.
Further 72: This is a new “as needed” ministry, to serve any temporary needs that aren’t addressed through our existing ministries, like those Jesus sent out as laborers in His field. Elizabeth McDonald is the ministry lead, with Betty Anderson, Gina Balsamo, and Ann Babinchock on the organizing team. To join, or if you know if a need we can help with, please email Further72sml@gmail.com.
Contact: Elizabeth McDonald (609)577-5424 or email: eamcdhoya@gmail.com
JOY (Just Older Youth): This ministry is comprised of adults age 50+ who enjoy friendship, travel, social events and serving the community through social justice and outreach to the needy. It also devotes time to those who are home-bound for many reasons through its “Two Bowls of Soup” program.
Knights of Columbus: The largest organization of Catholic laity in the country, The Knights of Columbus develop fraternity by promoting Catholic values and by serving the parish community using the principals of charity, unity, and patriotism. They participate in parish social/charitable activities throughout the year. For more information visit www.medfordknights.org.
Contact: Jim Wilhelmi (609)654-2373 or email: gk6520koc@gmail.com
Knights of Columbus Ladies Auxiliary: This group of women assists the local chapter of the Knights with special events, fundraising, works of mercy and/or charity promoting Catholic values.
Contact: Carolyn Karbasian (609)714-0620 or email: ckarbashian@aol.com
Prayer Shawl Ministry: Anyone who enjoys knitting/crocheting are ideal ministers who pray while creating a shawl in the privacy of their own home for someone who is ill, suffered a loss, or has other hardships. Shawls are given freely with love and can be requested at the parish office.
Contact: Rosemary Peters (856)780-5532
St. Mary of the Lakes Apostolic Reach-Out Team (SMART): SMART dedicates itself to sharing with the hungry/homeless in our parish and local community. Members reach out to those in need and share food for nourishment of the body and spiritual resources for the soul. Each year, they host a Christmas dinner at the Trenton Area Soup Kitchen.
Contact: Tom Plantulli (609)654-0958 or email: tpantulli@comcast.net
Society of St. Vincent de Paul: This Catholic lay organization offers person- to-person service to those in need, such as food, assistance with mortgages, rent, utilities, et al. Its thrift shop and food pantry are located on Jones Road, Medford. The parish has a monthly food collection to help fill the food pantry. If you or someone you know needs assistance, call SVdP at (609) 953-0021.
Wedding Facilitators: Members assist wedding rehearsal and organize the bridal party on the day of the wedding.
Contact: Rosemarie Lyczak (609)654-0272
YOUTH
YES Sr., Youth Energized in the Spirit Senior High Youth Group: This parish youth ministry for high school students offers youth the opportunity to explore their faith throughout their relationships, their experiences and prayer life. YES focuses on topics which are important to today’s youth and challenges them to live their everyday lives by Gospel values. The group meets regularly on Sunday evenings, participates in service projects and hosts various social activities throughout the year.
Contact: Frank Babinchock (609) 654-8208, Ext. 111 or email fbabinchock@smlparish.org
YES Jr., Youth Energized in the Spirit Junior High Youth Group: The youth of the parish (grades 5-8) are provided with opportunities for religious education, spiritual growth and participation in service, leadership and school activities. The programs are designed to inspire the youth of the parish with a deeper understanding and connection with their church.
Contact: Frank Babinchock (609) 654-8208, Ext. 111 or email fbabinchock@smlparish.org